Embracing Grief

As November 2nd approaches, I find myself reflecting on the precious moments shared with my beloved Monte, who gained his wings far too soon. The anniversary of his passing stirs a deep mix of emotions within me, reminding me of the love and time we shared. His absence has left a void in my heart which no other pet can fill.

Grief is a natural response to losing a pet. They are not just pets; they are family members who had filled our lives with joy, companionship, and unconditional love. When they pass, it’s normal to feel an overwhelming sense of loss, and it’s important to acknowledge that this grief is valid. However, it was totally heartbreaking for me.

Even after time has passed, I still find myself tearing up when I see his photos or recall the time we spent together. The smell of his paws (smelt like pandan leaves), the way he would greet me at the gate when I returned from work, and the moments spent cuddling on my bed are etched deeply in my memory. Each image brings back a flood of emotions, and I’ve learned that it’s okay to let those feelings surface. Grieving does not have a set timeline; it’s a journey that can ebb and flow.

He has been gone for almost a year. On the anniversary of his passing, I allow myself to feel the sadness. That is the reason for this article. To share a story with like minded friends who understand the depth of this loss. This writing helps me cope with the sadness I am feeling now as I write.

If you are also navigating the pain of losing a pet, remember that it’s okay to grieve. It’s a testament to the love you shared with your pet. Surround yourself with supportive family members and friends, where you can share your feelings with others who understand what you’re going through. In the end, the love we share with our pets never truly fades or ends; it simply transforms into many cherished memories that will continue to shape our hearts.

As I remember my furry son, Monte, on his anniversary, I choose to celebrate the joy he had brought into my life while also honouring my grief. Let’s allow ourselves the space to grieve, to remember, and to heal, knowing that our pets will always hold a special place in our hearts.

In loving memory of Monte,

Gail